By MercyAssistedCare.org Care Team
The short answer: compare services on four things you can ask about and get in writing. Those are what tasks the caregiver may and may not do (scope), who checks the work and who steps in when someone is sick or a problem comes up (supervision), what you will pay and what is billed separately (costs), and what happens in an emergency or when a shift is missed (emergency coverage). A polished brochure can describe all four beautifully and still leave you without answers. This page gives you a checklist you can bring to every call or visit so each service is measured the same way.
This is general education, not medical, legal, or financial advice, and it does not recommend, rank, or endorse any specific agency or caregiver.
First, Know What Kind of Help You Are Shopping For
“Home care” covers very different services, and comparing across them is where families get confused. The National Institute on Aging (NIA) describes several types of in-home help: home health care (nursing care, medication management, wound care, physical therapy, and medical equipment support), help with everyday activities such as bathing, dressing, grooming, using the toilet, eating, and moving around, household help such as cleaning and shopping, friendly visitor and companion services, and meal delivery. NIA says home health services can range from a few hours each day to around-the-clock care.
Before you call anyone, write down which of these your family member actually needs, on which days, and at what times of day. A service that is strong on companionship may not be the right match for someone who needs help with medications or transfers, and the reverse can also be true.
The Service-Comparison Checklist
Print this, or copy it into a note, and fill in one column per service you are considering. Ask for answers in writing. If a service will not put its answers in writing, that is useful information too.
1. Scope: What Will and Will Not Be Done
- Which specific tasks are included (bathing, dressing, toileting, meals, transfers, light housekeeping, errands, transportation)? Which are not?
- Can the caregiver help with medications? If so, what does that mean exactly: reminders, handing over pills, or something else? Which medication tasks are not allowed?
- Is there a written care plan, and who writes it? Can your family and your family member's doctor see it and suggest changes?
- What is the minimum number of hours per visit or per week?
- Is the service able to adjust if needs change, for example after a hospital stay?
2. Supervision: Who Is Accountable
- Who employs the caregiver: the agency, or you? If you would be the employer, ask what that means for payroll, insurance, and backup coverage.
- How are caregivers screened and trained, and can the service describe that process in writing?
- Who supervises the caregiver, how often do they check in, and how can you reach that person?
- How does the service handle a caregiver who is not a good fit? Can you ask for a change?
- How will the caregiver record what happened during each visit, and how will you see it?
- Is the agency licensed or regulated where you live, if that is required? NIA suggests checking with state and local agencies that regulate health services and looking for complaints, including through the Better Business Bureau.
3. Costs: What You Will Actually Pay
- What is the rate, and is it hourly, per visit, or per day? Do rates change for nights, weekends, or holidays?
- Is there a minimum number of hours, an intake or assessment fee, or a cancellation fee?
- What is billed separately (mileage, supplies, extra visits)?
- What will the first month's invoice look like? Ask for a sample.
- Which payers does the service accept, and what does it expect you to pay out of pocket?
Do not assume insurance will cover it. NIA notes that home health care is generally charged hourly, that Medicare and Medicaid offer limited coverage, and that most private insurance does not cover these costs. Medicare's own guidance is more specific: it covers home health services when you meet its conditions, including needing part-time or intermittent skilled services and being homebound, and it does not pay for 24-hour-a-day care at home or for custodial or personal care (like help with bathing, dressing, or using the bathroom) when that is the only care you need. Rules can differ by situation, so confirm with Medicare, your plan, or your state Medicaid office before you count on any coverage.
4. Emergency and Backup Coverage
- What happens if the scheduled caregiver is sick, late, or does not show up? How quickly is a replacement sent?
- Who do you call after hours, and does a person answer?
- What does the caregiver do if your family member falls, is confused, or seems suddenly unwell? What are the written steps, and when do they call 911 versus the family?
- Does the service keep emergency contacts, medication lists, and doctor information on file, and how is that kept current?
- Can the caregiver stay if your family member goes to the hospital, and how does the handoff work when they come home?
Why Emergency and Safety Questions Deserve Extra Weight
The CDC reports that over 14 million, or 1 in 4, older adults report falling every year, and that falls are the leading cause of both fatal and nonfatal injuries among people 65 and older. The CDC also notes that falls are preventable through steps like screening for fall risk and addressing modifiable factors such as medication management and strength and balance. That is one reason to ask each service how it would notice and respond to fall risks and changes in how your family member is doing. Our guide to fall-risk changes at home: lighting, rugs, footwear, and mobility notes can help you walk through the home before a caregiver starts.
Spotting Marketing Language That Does Not Answer Your Question
When you read a website or listen to a sales call, watch for phrases that sound reassuring but cannot be checked: “the best care,” “trusted by families,” “we treat everyone like family,” or “fully customized care.” None of these tell you who does what, who is in charge, or what it costs. Turn each one into a question from the checklist above. “Fully customized” becomes “Can I see a sample written care plan?” “Trusted” becomes “How are caregivers screened, and what is your process when there is a complaint?”
Prepare Before You Call
A shared record of medications and conditions makes every conversation more accurate. Our article on caregiver medication lists as a shared record for appointments and emergencies explains how to build one. If you are planning around a hospital discharge, see hospital-to-home transitions: questions to ask before the first week.
Who Should Get Professional Advice
- Ask your family member's doctor or care team what level of help is medically appropriate, especially if there are medications, wounds, dementia, swallowing problems, or a high fall risk.
- Ask a pharmacist or the prescriber about any medication tasks before assigning them to a caregiver.
- For payment questions, talk to Medicare, your plan, your state Medicaid office, an elder-law attorney, or your local Area Agency on Aging. Rules vary and change.
- If your family member is in immediate danger, call 911.
What to Do Next
- Write down the tasks and hours your family member needs.
- Choose two or three services and ask each the same checklist questions.
- Request the care plan, rate sheet, and emergency procedures in writing.
- Compare the answers side by side, and involve your family member in the decision as much as they are able.
- Start with a short trial period if possible, then review how it is going with the care team.
Sources
Source checks were done on October 6, 2026.
- National Institute on Aging: Services for Older Adults Living at Home (types of in-home services, finding services, hourly charges, limited Medicare and Medicaid coverage).
- Medicare.gov: Home Health Services Coverage (skilled-service and homebound conditions; exclusions for 24-hour care and custodial-only care).
- CDC: Older Adult Falls Data (1 in 4 older adults report falling each year; leading cause of injury; preventability), page last reviewed September 4, 2026.